Just as in home defense, the first idea is that an ounce of prevention
is worth a pound of cure. By this, one should stay out of trouble, or
situations that might lead to trouble. For example, if you are in the
middle of a heated argument over a parking space, give it up. How did
you get in such an argument in the first place? It's not worth it.
Don't worry, you're not a "wimp."
If somebody calls you scumbucket, or whatever, don't take the bait and
fight. Don't feel that you must "defend your masculinity" or
demonstrate how "tough" you are.
Maintain your car and be sure that it will not break down in a bad
neighborhood. (Try to stay away from bad neighborhoods, in passing.)
Always leave 1-2 car lengths in front of you when you stop. That way,
you may have room to manuver and get out. Your car windows should be
rolled up and doors locked. Do not leave valuable things like a purse
on the front passenger seat, as somebody can "smash and grab"---keep
it on the floor, or in the trunk. If somebody bumps you from behind
at low speed, think twice before you stop and get out; could it be a
carjacking? Keep all shooting supplies, targets empty ammo boxes,
radios, etc. out of sight; don't invite attention to your car or
Some of your "nasty" friends might be a lot of fun, but you should
stay away from them---in the long run, they might get you in some
serious trouble. Don't invite criminal attention: don't wear
excessive jewelry, flash stacks of hundred-dollar bills, etc. Don't
put stickers on your car that advertise expensive things that might be
inside it. Ask your local police for advice about safety.
If you obey rules of this nature, it is relatively unlikely that you
will be threatened. However, it is possible that even though you try
to stay out of trouble, it might come to you.
Carrying a pistol provides you with a last means to protect your life
if you feel that you are about to be killed or seriously injured.
Many people---mainly males, for some reason---confuse a pistol with a
means of defending their virility, a guarantee that they can tell
other people to "f*** off" with confidence; they mistakenly think that
flashing their "piece" is a means of saying "don't f*** with me, I'm
one tough S.O.B." These people are confused, and *their* pistol is
merely a means of getting them killed or imprisoned, because such
behavior is both *illegal* and *dangerous*. If one breaks a law with
a pistol, it is *very* easy to end up in prison. Would you want to go
to the big house over something as stupid as pulling your gun out to
scare an obnoxious drunk patron who spat upon you in a bar? Of course
If you decide that you want to carry a pistol, first you must see
about securing the required concealed carry permits from the police.
In some places, they are very hard---or impossible---to obtain. If
you are in this unfortunate situation, you can do nothing more than
try to lobby your local government, or consult a lawyer, depending on
the specifics of your case.
Next, you have to attend a safety/defense classes. The pistol is such
a difficult weapon to use that it takes a lifetime to master. You
should constantly practice shooting if you are serious about carry, at
distances that are typical of gunfights---3ft to 30ft. You should
take as many classes as possible.
V.D.1: Selection of Weapon
You should fire a wide variety of pistols in order to decide what you
wish to purchace. Your pistol should probably be a self-loading
"automatic," in either 9mm, .40S&W, or .45acp. Calibers that are
smaller than 9mm are questionable unless you are an extremely good
shot. (If you can place two shots on an index card in about one
second at 20 feet, you should carry whatever you want, even a .22lr;
everybody else is probably better off with 9mm.)
Your pistol should have tritium sights. These sights contain an
isotope of hydrogen (3H) which is in a capsule that glows in the dark.
If you have to shoot at night---which is the case in 70% of all
gunfights---they let you use your sights. If you have a pistol like a
Glock 17, you probably don't need a second magazine, as the weapon can
hold up to eighteen rounds. If you have a smaller pistol, like an HK
P7, which can hold up to eight rounds, you might want a second
Your pistol should have a modern "jacketed hollowpoint" (JHP) rounds
inside it. Brand names like Golden Saber, Black Tallon, and Gold Dot
are typical of this type of ammunition.
You should resist impractical pistols like Desert Eagles and the like.
Unless you are massive, you probably will never be able to hide them.
Huge revolvers are very difficult to shoot rapidly and accurately, and
the muzzle blast can blind you, making it difficult to use the
sights---this is *unacceptable*. Finally, if the round is too
powerful, it will pass through the target (assuming that you hit
them), and through lots of other things, too, which is also
unacceptable. You have a responsibility to be reasonable in your
selection of ammunition.
You should get a high-quality pistol. Pistols are described elsewhere
in this FAQ. Consider pistols from HK, Glock, SIG, Taurus, Colt, etc.
Where should you put your pistol? For men, the best place is in an
"inside the pants" holster. If you wear a suit, you might be able to
get away with a shoulder holster, but you must be very careful that it
does not show through. Your co-workers will probably get very upset
if they realize that you have a pistol, particularly if you work in a
city, where most people do not shoot or understand guns. If you get
an "inside the pants" holster, you probably should get a few pairs of
larger pants and see your tailor. Be sure to wear the empty pistol in
a holster to insure proper fit.
Women can put their pistol inside a bag, but it might be difficult to
reach. (The pistol should not be free inside the bag; it should be in
a special holster.) Also, an aggressor might be very interested in
the bag. A woman can also use an "inside the pants" holster, but it
is difficult to look stylish this way. While quite ugly looking, one
of the best choices for women is a "fanny pack" holster. If you can
get something like this custom-made for you, it is probably a good
idea, since the common brands can be recognized by people with a good
eye, which is to be avoided.
There are numerous other places to hide a pistol---like ankle
holsters, belly bands, etc.,---but they are not very useful or
practical. Unfortunately, the right holster for you depends on the
shape of your body, the amount of clothes that you wear, etc. This
issue is often discussed at length in gun magazines, but you should
study some catalogs to see what is possible.
If you buy a holster, you should get a custom high-quality leather
model which is specific to your pistol. A list of holster makers is
provided elsewhere in the FAQ.
V.D.3: Mode of Carry
There are several ways to carry a pistol, C-1, C-2, C-3, and C-4.
C-1: This holds for pistols like the Colt .45. The pistol is "cocked
and locked," meaning that you draw it, flip off the safety with your
thumb, and start shooting.
Many people advocate C-1 carry, but I think that they are mistaken,
for reasons that will be discussed shortly.
C-2: This holds for pistols like the SIG/Sauer. The pistol is loaded,
but the hammer is down. When you draw the pistol, the first shot
demands that you pull the trigger though a very long motion. The
remaining rounds can be fired with a lighter trigger. C-2 carry is
considered safer than C-1 carry, and there are no safties to take off.
Most modern designs are C-2.
C-3: This mode of carry can be used for any pistol. The pistol is
kept with an empty chamber, with all of the safeties off. When the
pistol is drawn, the slide is "racked" back and released to put a
round into the chamber moments before shooting. This is an extremely
safe mode of carry, since even a malfunction of the pistol will not
result in an accidental discharge.
C-4: This mode of carry has an empty pistol with no ammunition in it.
The pistol must be drawn, the magazine inserted (putting it into C-3),
and then the slide must be drawn back and released before the weapon
is ready to fire. C-4 demands the operator to find two things, the
pistol and the magazine, and combine them; this might not be a good
idea under a high-stress situation.
C-3 is probably the best mode of carry. Correct presentation of the
pistol involves putting your hand on the butt, clearing the holster,
putting your hands together, pulling the slide back as you bring the
pistol in front of your line of sight, obtaining the "Weaver" stance,
and then using aimed fire. Because the "racking" of the slide is
"pipelined" with the presentation, C-3 does *not* take longer than
The major problems with C-3 carry is that you need two hands to do it,
and it might therefore be useless if you are jumped at very short
distance. However, if you opt for C-3 carry, you must *ALWAYS*
practice it, and nothing else. (Racking the slide on a draw must be a
habit that you don't have to think about.)
YOU SHOULD ALWAYS INSPECT AND CLEAN YOUR PISTOL, so it is clean and
happy, no matter what your chosen mode of carry is.
V.D.4: When to draw or shoot?
Three conditions have to met before you can even consider drawing your
--> somebody has the *intent* of killing or severely hurting you
--> they have the *means* of doing so (a knife, pistol, shotgun,
their hands, etc.)
--> they have the immediate *opportunity* to do so
Can you escape without danger? If so, DO IT! In some states, this is
required of you.
If there is nothing that you can do to escape without making your
position more desparate, in one smooth motion you draw your pistol,
rack the slide while bringing it up to eye level, and shoot until you
stop the person. Shoot for the center of the torso. Do not issue any
warnings; you should not be shooting unless the situation is very
grave, and there is nothing more that you can do for them.
If the first few shots are not having any effect, either you are
missing (very easy to do with a pistol), or they are wearing armor; in
this case, you must shoot for the head or perhaps the pelvis. Your
intent is *NOT* to kill the person, it is only to stop them. Do not
try to "shoot for the leg," since you are probably not good enough to
hit a small moving target. The moment that you stop them, STOP
SHOOTING! Render your gun safe, holster it, and call the police and
Of course, you should aways remember that there may be people behind
both you and your target. You should try very hard to be careful not
to kill a bystander by accident.
Be very careful about what you say to the police without your lawyer,
and see if you can get the name of any witnesses who might have seen
Here are some examples of when you should *NOT* draw your pistol:
-- somebody stole your purse or briefcase
Resist the temptation to shoot them in the back, it's illegal!
-- somebody is kicking your car in a parking lot
Don't draw and try to "hold them for the police;" just back off and
call the police.
-- somebody is exposing themselves to you, or playing with themselves
This will not kill you, so don't draw!
-- a gang of youths are walking towards you
Back off, cross the street, etc. Don't look scared, since you know
what to do if they force you.
-- somebody is mugging you
Don't shoot to protect your wallet. Only shoot to protect yourself.
So, if some heroin addict is demanding your wallet, hand it over. If
they try to hurt you, however, you must draw and shoot to stop, as
-- somebody is trying to cut you with a knife from behind a big fence
If they can't reach you, you are not in immediate harm, so DO NOT
SHOOT! ALL THREE CONDITIONS must be met before you shoot.
As mentioned above, it is very difficult to shoot with a pistol, so
you should take as many lessons as possible. As always, you should be
*intimately* familiar with the local laws of your state. If you carry
a pistol, you must be on your best behavior, trying very hard to stay
out of fights and arguments.